I'd have no issues with a no vote if A better together presented a positive case for Scotland within the union and B the media at least tried to be impartial.
Sadly with such a close vote there's no doubt the unprecedented fear and scaremongering seen in the 2 weeks before the vote had a massive effect.
Look as a country we can respect the no vote and put independence on the back burner and at least give Westminster the opportunity to deliver the change promised. Milliband after all said social justice was best achieved with a no vote (stop laughing up the back).
But indepenence isn't going away. It's mainstream now. And will become a real issue when Westminster fail on the above promises like we know they will.
For now the SNP should focus on delivering the best for Scotland, like it or not they are the best party for this, labour proved during the referndeum they are not the same party anymore.